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Couples & Relationships

  • For partners navigating mixed-neurotype dynamics, LGBTQ+ identities, cultural and social dynamics, communication challenges, relational or sexual trauma, disconnection, or defining your relationship on your own terms.

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  • Every relationship, including non-traditional relationship structures, have their own ecology -its own rhythms, root systems, and ways of reaching towards the light. When those rhythms fall out of sync, it doesn't mean something is broken. More often it means your relationship is asking for a different kind of tending.

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  • Whether you've grown distant, gotten stuck in the same painful loops, or are facing a transition that's shaken your foundation, this is a space to slow down, get curious, and find your way back to each other.​​

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  • What we might explore together:

    • Attachment Through an Intersectional Lens
      Long before you met each other, you each learned how to love from family, culture, and community: how conflict was handled, how emotions were (or weren't) allowed to be expressed, what closeness looked like where you grew up. We'll trace those inherited dynamics and bring them into your current relationship —how do your different neurotypes, attachment styles, or trauma histories shape the way you reach for or retreat from each other? We'll develop communication practices that honor how each of you actually processes, not just how you're "supposed" to.

    • Navigating Rupture & Change
      If you're in the middle of a rupture, a separation, a breakup, or a slow drift apart, we'll gently map the path that led here: what things were like before, what shifted, and how you arrived at this moment together. This often opens into deeper values work —what do you actually want your relationship to look like? Are you craving a change in your relationship structure, your roles, your agreements? There's room here to explore that honestly, without rushing toward a predetermined outcome.

    • Sex, Sexuality & Meaning-Making
      Sex positivity is central to how I work. We'll explore what sex and sexuality actually mean to each of you —not just the mechanics, but the meaning underneath. What was your sex education like? Was sex something spoken about in your family, your community, or was it silence and shame? Understanding where your relationship to sexuality began helps us understand where it can grow. Intimacy isn't one-size-fits-all. We'll explore what safety and closeness look like for each of you —emotionally, physically, and sensorially —especially when sexual trauma, sensory sensitivities, or nervous system differences are part of the picture.

    • Consensual Communication as Our Foundation
      Consensual communication isn't something we only talk about when it comes to sex —it's the practice we build our entire way of relating on. Checking in, asking rather than assuming, honoring a "not yet" or a "not that way" —these are skills that strengthen every part of a relationship, intimate and otherwise.

    • Division of Labor & Executive Functioning
      When one partner carries more of the invisible load —mental, emotional, or logistical —resentment builds quietly. We'll look honestly at those imbalances and find approaches that work with your natural strengths.

    • Identity & Transitions
      Relationships grow and shift as we do. Whether you're navigating a partner's coming out, a gender transition, a neurodivergent awakening, or a major life change —I'll hold space for the full complexity of becoming, together.

    • Relationship Structure & Agreements
      Whether you're navigating polyamory, an open relationship, relationship anarchy, or redefining what your partnership looks like, we'll explore what agreements, communication, and care look like in your specific constellation.

    • Healing Relational Wounds
      Betrayal, rupture, and disconnection leave marks. We'll tend to those wounds with care —building trust and safety slowly, honestly, and on your own terms.​

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  • The more we practice talking about these things together in session — attachment, conflict, sex, values, boundaries —the more comfort and confidence you'll carry to talk about them with each other outside of it. That's the real work: not just insight, but the lived, ongoing practice of it.

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  • In this space, there's no 'right' way to be in a relationship (including what shape that relationship takes). Whether you're dealing with intimacy challenges, working through trauma, or seeking to better understand each other's neurotypes, we'll nurture your relationship's growth in ways that feel authentic to both of you. Together, we'll create patterns of relating where consent, boundaries, and mutual understanding flow as naturally as a forest stream.

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  • 50 min | $185

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